We believe that before you take any legal steps to end your marriage, you should consider exhausting all possible ways to save it. Have you thought about seeking professional help in working out ways to save your marriage?  Many communities and social and religious organizations offer counseling services either free or on a sliding fee scale.  Or you may wish to consult with a marriage counselor, psychologist, psychiatrist, minister, priest, rabbi or other qualified person.  Your attorney may also know someone who can counsel you and your spouse.